just read the following on Baldilocks and thought it illustrated beautifully the situation that many "realists" find themselves in today ...
Another One-Act Play
He: The sky is blue.
She: No it’s not, it’s plaid.
He: Why are you saying that?
She: Because that the way I see it.
He: But it is the color that has been historically called blue.
She: I don’t see it that way.
... read the whole thing ...